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Cô gắi dễ thươngHow to handle sibling rivalry

Cô gắi dễ thươngHere’s why it’s worth listening when your kids fight.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngSibling rivalry — lifelong relationships, lifelong effects

The rivalry between brothers and sisters can be a positive training ground for life — or a negative relationship that escalates to abuse.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngHow to help siblings grow up to like each other

Cô gắi dễ thươngDream of your children being close — even best friends — as adults? Here's how to nurture that bond.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngWhen sibling rivalry becomes sibling abuse

6 things to look for that suggest the relationship is off the rails.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngJosh’s story: getting bullied at school

As parents, we wrestled with what to say and do when our son started coming home wounded by bullies.

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What to tell your daughter about mean girls

Cô gắi dễ thươngIf your daughter feels like her friends aren't treating her well, here's what Robin Stern says you should do.

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Cô gắi dễ thương12 bullying myths

What do parents really need to know about bullying? It's not necessarily what you think.

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How a parent used the Meta-Moment

Instead of blowing up when they get her order wrong, a mom uses the meta-moment tool from Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence.

Cô gắi dễ thươngPersonal essay

Cô gắi dễ thươngAngry daddy can’t get no respect

Cô gắi dễ thươngBeing a father today means I get no respect. None. Is it because I'm the only male in the house? Raised by a military dad? From a bygone era?

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Ever feel like you’re going to lose your cool with your kid?

Cô gắi dễ thươngParenting expert and a TV supernanny, Deborah Tillman says it happens to every parent. It's a matter of knowing how to turn off the switch and stop yourself before things turn ugly.

Cô gắi dễ thươngPersonal essay

Angry daddy can’t get no respect

Cô gắi dễ thươngBeing a father today means I get no respect. None. Is it because I'm the only male in the house? Raised by a military dad? From a bygone era?

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6 myths about respect

Adopting a new view of respect could help you rid your kids of rudeness

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Cô gắi dễ thươngTeach your children respect

Cô gắi dễ thươngIt's up to parents to teach children to treat others with courtesy, says Harvard psychologist Richard Weissbourd.

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When parenting styles clash

Whether you're right or wrong, call a cease-fire and find a way to build a united front for the kids’ sake.

Cô gắi dễ thươngPersonal essay

Why I yell at my kids

Cô gắi dễ thươngParenting expert Christine Carter admits she knows better ... but still she cops to yelling at her kids — and getting caught.

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Spanking: discipline or abuse?

It's common, it's cultural, it's legal in all states in the nation. But does spanking work?

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Is it me? Life lessons from failed parenting

Cô gắi dễ thươngMy son’s out-of-control, unpredictable behavior caused my husband and me to re-examine how we dish out discipline.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngNavigating the rocky road of girls’ friendships

Cô gắi dễ thươngParents feel anguish, too, as their daughters negotiate the social minefield of popular girls and other cliques.

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Girl friendships | Through a child’s eyes

Friendships are a huge part of children’s lives and one of the hardest things for parents to manage. How can you help your child navigate this murky terrain?

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Debunking the myth of the BFF

Tips about friendship to ground girls in reality and encourage self-confidence.

Cô gắi dễ thươngPersonal essay

Cô gắi dễ thươngUnpopular … in elementary school?

Cô gắi dễ thương'Unpopular' wasn't a word I expected to hear, so young, and from my own son. I felt less equipped to handle the struggle over popularity than any parental challenge so far.

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Bet you it’s good to be competitive

Cô gắi dễ thươngCan you make a child’s natural inclination work to his (or her) advantage?

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Help the competitive child win more than the game

5 tips for positive and healthy outcomes that don’t squash their competitive nature

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Cô gắi dễ thươngTeaching kids when to be competitive

Studies of kids around the world show a remarkable pattern in how girls and boys respond to competition in school. Where girls succeed, boys often don't. Here's how parents can help their boys.

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Homework battles | Through a child’s eyes

Cô gắi dễ thươngDoes your child ever struggle with homework? Many do. And there’s actually a lot you can do to help. Start by watching this video with your child.

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Does homework really work?

After decades spent trying to assess the value of homework, researchers still argue over the simplest findings.

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When parents feel frustrated by homework

Cô gắi dễ thươngDread dealing with homework? Try using this expert's tip.

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How can I tear my tween away from that screen?

When your child's life revolves around screen time, how do you raise an emotionally intelligent , yet tech-savvy, kid?

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Cô gắi dễ thươngIs there a TV in your child’s room?

Research shows having a boob tube in your kiddo's bedroom can be far more damaging than we ever knew.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngCan kids game their way into emotional smarts?

Cô gắi dễ thươngScientists, education professionals, and others see the potential for video games to teach good behaviors — instead of bad.

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Your child’s brain on technology: video games

Our kids are awash in technology 24/7 — should we worry about the effects on their developing brains?

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Cô gắi dễ thươngYour child’s brain on technology: social media

Cô gắi dễ thươngSocial media isn't going anywhere, so parents must consider how it affects kids' development and determine its role in their lives.

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How to beat the morning rush

Are crazed mornings stressing out your family? Here are a few strategies to help start the day off happier, calmer - and on time.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngHow to help a disorganized child

Cô gắi dễ thươngParenting expert John Duffy reveals how you can help transform even the most scattered child into a master of organization.

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Get your child to do their chores — without the nagging

Cô gắi dễ thươngParenting coach Christine Carter says her secret for getting kids to take more responsibility

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The instant guide to time management for kids

Cô gắi dễ thươngTeaching children organizational skills is key to helping them succeed in school and life.

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5 tips to teach kids to keep track of their time

Kids who manage their own time do better in school.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngLife after wartime

Cô gắi dễ thươngResilience is a life skill all kids need — and military kids tend to have in spades. Why are military kids so resilient?

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Is your child resilient?

Resilience is a skill that serves kids throughout their lives. Robin Stern of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence explains how parents can foster this quality in their child.

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To teach resilience, hold the automatic reassurance

Cô gắi dễ thươngIf you're too quick to jump in and comfort your children when they don't do well, you may miss the chance to teach an important life lesson.

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We don’t appreciate the value of gratitude

Cô gắi dễ thươngGratitude works wonders — and deserves a Renaissance in the U.S.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngGratitude: the cure for entitlement and materialism

10 tips from experts on promoting gratitude in our kids

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The grateful child

Are children who learn how to count their blessings healthier and happier?

Cô gắi dễ thươngPersonal essay

Is that love or fear?

Cô gắi dễ thươngParenting choices were once respected as private. Now, judgment from other parents, nosy neighbors, and a bogeyman-fearing society often influences — and overrules — parents' decisions.

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Kill the motor, dude. Find out what your kids can do on their own

Curious how you can raise independent kids without putting them at risk? See what the experts have to say.

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Get your child to do their chores, without the nagging

'It sounds really mean and tough,' admits parenting coach Christine Carter... but it works. Here's her secret for getting kids to do their chores and take more responsibility.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngRaise confident kids by speaking their love language

Knowing how your child interprets love — and that it may be different than how you do — can make a world of difference in parenting.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngSelf-confidence: does your child suffer from not enough or too much?

This 4-step formula can help adults instill healthy self-assurance in kids.

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Do boys and girls react to criticism differently?

Cô gắi dễ thươngAbsolutely! Stanford psychologist and 'Mindset' author Carol Dweck says it’s night and day – and linked to the self-esteem gender gap.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngCracking the code on curiosity

One father dives into curiosity research to help spark his daughter’s passion for distant sciences — and finds a link to intelligence development.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngHelp your child find his passion

Kids who seem bored and disengaged may just need help identifying their strengths and skills, says psychologist Madeline Levine.

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It’s all about the teacher

Cô gắi dễ thươngWhen it comes to the quality of a child's education, it's all about having the teacher to boost your kid's curiosity.

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Why social skills are key to learning

Cô gắi dễ thươngBefore they can learn academics, kids need to know how to behave in a group.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngOptimism and motivation: keys to your child’s success

Cô gắi dễ thươngTwo psychologists describe the inborn optimism and motivation that drive children to learn and develop — and how you can nurture those traits.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngEmpathy's poster child

Cô gắi dễ thươngTouched by an image of child slaves, a little girl pledges to do something about it — and turns her family upside down.

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Vivienne Harr: teaching empathy by example

Vivienne's only 11, but she's trying to end child slavery. It's not always easy to keep going. Here's how she stays positive.

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7 do’s and don’ts to help your family build empathy skills

Cô gắi dễ thươngHelp your child develop empathy by fostering an emotionally intelligent environment.

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A crafty way to teach little ones empathy

Making friendship treasure boxes is a fun (and easy) way for the preschool set to practice listening and learn empathy — skills they'll need in kindergarten.

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What would your child do? | Hidden Camera | Caught being kind

Kids are learning emotional intelligence skills at school. But how will they act when no adults are around? It's not always easy to do the kind thing.

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Would your child help? | Hidden Camera | Caught being kind

Schools are teaching kids emotional intelligence skills. But do lessons about kindness stick even when no adults are around? Watch how these kids react to a fellow student in need.

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How to not raise a jerk

With little eyes watching and learning from your every move, what behaviors should parents reconsider to set a better example?

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Do you feel me? (pinwheels)

In our guessing game, a generous girl shares a story of spontaneous kindness.

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The troubling education trend that doesn’t include honesty

Honesty has possibly become road kill on the path to academic and lifelong success.

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Cô gắi dễ thươngIs your preschooler’s lying and stealing normal?

Cô gắi dễ thươngA little one who lies and steals may seem destined for a life of crime, but both behaviors are far less alarming when viewed through a child development lens.

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The best lie I’ve ever told my kids…according to the experts

We teach our kids not to lie, but is a little yuletide deception something to feel guilty about?